Friday, February 12, 2010

Why is it that some people feel 'true love' after having good sex with their partner?

Endorphins and other hormones that are realeased. I know that girls release some sort of bonding hormone that causes them to feel attached after sex. That's why is isn't smart for girls to try to just have casual sex with someone cuz that's just not how our bodies are made.Why is it that some people feel 'true love' after having good sex with their partner?
well if its a guy, he like loses his sex drive after blowing his load and isnt thinking about scoring anymore, so thats probably how he feelsWhy is it that some people feel 'true love' after having good sex with their partner?
B/c great sex is euphoric and produces the lovey-dovey hormone!

Is it true that When it comes to true love, it means that you and your partner only have eyes for each other?

When it comes to true love, it means that you and your partner only have eyes for each other and will never admire other people锟絪 good looks or check them outIs it true that When it comes to true love, it means that you and your partner only have eyes for each other?
Yes,i agree sweetheart,I only have eyes for you.I love and admire you in every way babe! No one else on this planet comes even close.I desire and only love you.Is it true that When it comes to true love, it means that you and your partner only have eyes for each other?
Perhaps that is the truth according to a 5 year old child but in the real world being in love doesn't mean you don't have ';eyes'; for anyone else. People who have been married for 50 years still check-out other people. It's only human. Being in love just means that the person you love is your best friend, the one you trust, love unconditionally and have a strong passion for. You will have good times and bad times but you stick with each other. As far as checking other people out or harmless flirting? There is nothing wrong with that. It actually makes you appreciate the person you love even more.
Yeah right!! I am completely and madly in love with my fiance. He is my soul-mate, BUTTT that is not going to stop me or him from admiring another human beings beauty. I tell him when I think a guy looks good, and he tells me when he thinks a girl looks good. Just because you still ';check people out'; doesn't mean that you're not in love. It just means that you have a good relationship. You can't ask someone to never appreciate someone else's looks, I mean geez we are human.
Haha that's a good question. Often my friends say ';loookkkk hes so cute!'; and I haven't even noticed, yet he is right in front of my face the whole time. Its not that I don't find them attractive after I look, I just am not always on a search like my single friends.





And as for my boyfriend. More often then not I point out the hot girls before he sees them. And I am sure that he finds the girls I point out hot, but again he just doesn't notice until she is pointed out.
in my honest opinion... never on one occasion has my fiance thought or agreed that another woman was hot. he says he just cant see it in that way any more, and seriously doesnt see anyone else as being beautiful. i always say, god u must be lying, but nope thats the way my beautiful man is and always has been with me! on the other hand, i'll occassionally say to him babe look at that guys muscles or something like that and we have a little laugh about it, im always upfront but in saying that i could NEVER look at another person in a sexual way, just in being generally nice looking but no feelings at all associated with that. probably explains why we both HATE porn and even if i tried, he wouldnt look at it lol hes cute and i must say im very lucky, and probably very rare!
I agree. I wouldn't say one wouldn't notice someone's good looks but they wouldn't / shouldn't admire them and go further...
NOT TRUE! We still notice if there is someone who is attractive. we just don't go hit on them or try to sleep with them.
Phil's eyes are only for you.
Not at all true...one can continue to look, but they can't touch!

How and when did you meet your life partner? After dating how many people? How exactly do you know true love?

I met him by accident on myspace, not to sound cliche but we became friends first and then lovers. I have found my true love my lifemate. We look forward in getting old together.How and when did you meet your life partner? After dating how many people? How exactly do you know true love?
I had only dated once before meeting my now hubby. I lived in Wisconsin and he in Texas and we met on myspace because we both had Jeep Wranglers :) After writing back and forth we talked on the phone for the first time in September, said I love you by October, decided we wanted to marry by november And Finally met for the first time when he came up to Wisconsin In January for a weekend.





We decided we loved each other even more in person and when I visited him in March in Texas to meet his family he proposed and I said yes!





He moved to Wisconsin in April, We married in July and had our first baby 9 mo. later! :)





We were both 21 and just knew! We did talk a lot about everything and are even happier almost 2 years later:)How and when did you meet your life partner? After dating how many people? How exactly do you know true love?
We met when he was teaching my step-sister how to skate at the skating rink near his house. After dating 3 or 4 other guys we started dating 3 years later. After 7 months we were married. You know it's true love when you respect each other's thoughts and feelings. You want what is best for that person and do everything to help them acchieve that goal.
In my opinion, as of how I feel right now this is what I think/feel.


We've never dated.


We met 2 years ago, and talk everyday. We love everything about each other, but we are waiting to date. I've never met and dated or hung out with a more amazing guy. I have never looked twice at another guy.


I've only dated 3 guys.





True love can happen at anytime.





We met through an online game 2 years ago, though I wouldn't recommend meeting someone that way, but yeah, ha.
I met him at a dance club when I was almost 20. Not the place you expect to find some thing real, but it happened. I had about 3 serious relationships before him, and a few not so serious relationships. I just knew that he was the one. We met in July, moved in together in September, and have been together for 5 years. We just got married 2 weeks ago :)
1. I met her in a back alley outside a stripclub where she was turning tricks for packs of Pall Mall non-filters.





2. Actual GF's? Do hookers count? Roughly 37 hookers(2 of which I am pretty sure were women) and 12 actual GF's





3. She could give BJ's while smoking a Pall Mall. She never took the cigarette out of her mouth, not even to ash the thing,...ever! God she's a great woman!
i don't have a life partner...i have a wife.
still waiting on that one.....
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  • Is it true that a woman who is HIV positive can not give her partner the virus unless they both have open sore

    My niece was told by her HIV counselor that she can not spread the virus unless her and her partner both have open sores in their genital area, is this true?Is it true that a woman who is HIV positive can not give her partner the virus unless they both have open sore
    No this is not true. The virus is passed through vaginal fluids and semen as well as blood.Is it true that a woman who is HIV positive can not give her partner the virus unless they both have open sore
    No, this is not true. You definitely do not have to have open sores on the genitals in order to transmit HIV through sexual intercourse.





    Having genital sores or ulcers is only one factor out of many that can INCREASE THE CHANCES of transmitting HIV through unprotected sex.





    Your niece possibly misunderstood what the counselor was saying.
    true but your conselor is correct in one way, the reason it is spread globably is through chancroid female to male, that increases the risk, for one female to male transmission barely exist in the us, with out an open sore present, or if the partner who doesn't have has had a clymadia/gonnorhea/syphills infection that isn't treated and thats what increases the risk double, bottom line hiv doesn't survive well in the vagina period
    No way to know for sure, but it definitely increases the risk. Blood can enter mucous membranes, so theoretically only one person would have to have a sore or small amounts of blood.





    There are hundreds of thousands of female to male transmissions across the globe - it's hard to think every single one of them have had both partners with sores!
    No, that's not true.

    Is it true that one partner in a relationship dominates the other?

    only if the one person is weak and need someone to help the other alongIs it true that one partner in a relationship dominates the other?
    No, this only happens in unhealthy or abusive relationships. This is not normal.Is it true that one partner in a relationship dominates the other?
    FALSE FALSE FALSE!!!

    Is it true that when you have sex with your partner that you have slept with every person they have?

    Sure is... that is why protection is VERY important... just because you may have only slept with a couple people... does not mean you arent at risk for STD's. You have to worry about who your parner has been with, and who those partners have been with... Very good idea to get tested together BEFORE having sex... and still wear a condom.Is it true that when you have sex with your partner that you have slept with every person they have?
    well, not PHYSICALLY but theoretically. think about it... people don't just magically get infected with STDs... someone has to transmit it to them. and where do you think people get stds from... thats right... people they've been exposed to. so its like the cycle of infection just keeps going on and on so in essence... you are exposed to the same people your sex partners have been exposed to.Is it true that when you have sex with your partner that you have slept with every person they have?
    Yes. Because every partner could of had other partners and those partners could of had other partners, and those could of........you get it?? And any one of them that had anything that could be passed on could end up in your body. Use a condom

    Do you think the National Enquirer story is true about Palin cheating on her husband with his business partner?

    The John Edwards story turned out to be true...Do you think the National Enquirer story is true about Palin cheating on her husband with his business partner?
    Even if it's true, I don't care. She's got enough negatives anyway. I don't care what Clinton did, McCain or anyone. I care how they run the country and Palin would be a big time mess as president.





    Hey, folks, this is the USA, not Nowheresville Alaska.Do you think the National Enquirer story is true about Palin cheating on her husband with his business partner?
    National Enquirer


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    And the Sun


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    Are all kind of strange story news papers


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    Some stories are true but most are kind of blown out of proportion


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    So to think any American would cheat on their spouse is still believing that the


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    Jerry Springer show is how people live in this country


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    Well almost as hard


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    It could be true because of the Edwards story. But I bet it is a thing where there's no real way to prove it did or didn't happen without one side admitting it. It's kind of like Jose Canseco saying everyone in baseball was using steroids. A lot of people were using steroids like he said. But that doesn't mean everyone he said was.
    It doesnt matter. It's a trick by the Republicans, to get you focused on what is not important. Then, everyone gets focused on the tabloid-part of her life. And, the McCain can say that everyone is being mean to Sarah. And their polls go up.





    It's classic Karl Rove 101.





    Keep your eye on the ball. Ask yourself if you want to reward the Republicans for the last 8 years with 4 more years.





    Watch how Palin answers questions, and ask yourself if you want her being a heartbeat away from being the most powerful person in the world (The odds of a 72 year old man dying before the age of 80 is 1 in 3, according to insurance stats)





    The Republicans think you are stupid enough to be distracted with these kinds of tabloid stories. Prove them wrong. Pay attention to what is important.
    thanks but no thanks. (I've been wanting to get that in somewhere). They've been right about several politician's daliences in recent years, but how many things do that they write have proven to be wrong? Are Laura and Bush really going to get a divorce?, for instance, who knows, it seems unlikely, though I certainly wouldn't blame her.





    So to summarize, I wouldn't take anything they say to the bank (of course these days, maybe I would).
    Well look at the words you used ';Story.'; They tell ';stories'; and stories are not always the truth. They have been sued left and right by many celebrities for their colorful ';stories.'; In the end it is all about selling papers.
    No I don't think it's true. The National Enquirer also says that the aliens landed in Washington.... WAIT! That would explain alot wouldn't it? Believe what you want but I wouldn't trust them for a legitimate source.
    The National Enquirer is ';all the news that's fit to make up';, so they're not very credible.
    Is there a story about her in there? She's always looked like a swinger to me.
    no

    Is it true that you attracted to your life partner because you look alike?

    If so It explains Shambo's obsession with Susan Boyle.





    They have the same tash





    :))Is it true that you attracted to your life partner because you look alike?
    Is it pick on Shammy night tonight to celebrate my new level 3 status or sommat?Is it true that you attracted to your life partner because you look alike?
    no, i like women and i look like a man so, this theory is flawed ;)





    as for my wife and i, we have different hair color eye color she is shorter than me, and there are other big differences that i love even more ;)
    Yes, you usually go for familiarty, someone you relate to, unless they're loaded.





    Happily married 20 years and I wouldn't change him for anyone, don't tell him that
    I think it can be possible... but it's not necessarily something that happens a lot or to everyone. I'm in an interracial relationship and we definitely don't look alike.
    I heard that.


    Guys go for girls they look like supposedly.





    Mine?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>


    It's fun.
    Maybe, but there are loads of people attracted to each other who have opposite qualities.
    mwhahaha





    Shambo get some tweezers dear!!





    Well I bloody hope not..





    He is 6'5...me 5'5





    He is dark brown haired...me blonde





    He has smelly feet....me ooh I smell sweet





    He is a brick shite house....me a titch!!
    Lol no. Me and my partner dont look a like. For one I am female he is male.
    In that case how did I ever give myself a second look and end up marrying?
    Hahaha good one Duchess!!!!
    now,now jealousy's a terrible thing :)
    lololol!
    hahahaaahaaahahahahaha!





    you're funny
    no my girlfriend is a beautiful woman with an amazing body
    If that is true I wonder what Dave s with his fixation on Kate McCann, Jade Goody and Susan Boyle ...... really looks like!
    No, not at all.
    You must be kidding
    God, I hope not!
    Ohhh -red rag to a bull lol
    and here was me thinking it was 'cause they had similar sized cokcs
    Shite, I must have been out with some ugly women.

    Is it true if your spouse or partner eats a lot of fruit such as pineapple and you perform oral sex will his s?

    my husband says that if he eats alot of pineapple through out the day that it will taste sweeter I was just wondering if anyone tried this?Is it true if your spouse or partner eats a lot of fruit such as pineapple and you perform oral sex will his s?
    Yes, this is true. A healthy diet in general will make semen taste better.





    Alternately, smoking, eating large quantities of red meat %26amp; small quantities of fruits, vegetables %26amp; juices can cause semen to taste bitter or sour.Is it true if your spouse or partner eats a lot of fruit such as pineapple and you perform oral sex will his s?
    The taste is not from what is eaten but how it is done
    Yeah it true. When I eat choclate the same happens for my gf.
    YEA ITS TRUE I DO THE SAME THING AND GIRLS LOVE IT!!
    this is true... same goes if you drink alot of beer or gatorade. or eat onion
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  • I m looking for a right & true partner can i get?

    I stay in mumbai,working as a legal consultant,my mom dad not have,i m alone want a partner who love me %26amp; support in good %26amp; bad situationI m looking for a right %26amp; true partner can i get?
    Sorry dear, Getting a partner for whole life is not so easier for the


    whole life.








    Try to be a good friend first. Try to understtand their problems.


    their are so many quality like this WHICH FIRST BOTH OF U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND. I cant sugesst u so much Because i am just 20 yrs old. so that i feel that a child is giving the sugesstionI m looking for a right %26amp; true partner can i get?
    Yes why not but you should have confidence on your choice it is on you.


    It is not on your destiny it is on you to get your life partener.


    All The Best.
    Ofcourse you can get, u have to register in any marriage beaurau and look for it. U should make time and feel that u need a wife who can share your veiws and life.
    Ask your friends Mothers if they know anyone.
    Be looking for truely
    1. you search for a true one in ur area itself, jude them from their character and behaviour
    Definitely, My best wishes for your search
    try the various matrimonial sites..


    surely you will get one..


    best luck..
    are you gay?
    You will get a partner which you deserve, geting a right partner is not, but being the right partner is the key.
    surely
    Its really hard to find one n mumbai.u dont have to look when its time it will come along.

    I am not having girl friends then how i will find true life partner?

    You don't go looking for your wife like it's part of life.


    If you want to be with someone then you ask them.





    It's good to have experience with people though, and if it doesn't work out you move on.I am not having girl friends then how i will find true life partner?
    When the time is right, then you will know. So don't go around looking so damn desperate and take the first thing that takes you. Find what you want and you will make your life a lot easier.

    Will i ever get true partner in my life?????

    Hi Frineds, I live in Mumbai, India, I have one strong question in my mind always. Will i ever get true love??? will i vere get true partner in life...I am 27 and dont have anyone near me...I am very much alone here....I am not asking for u all to become my friend or i am not looking for any love on yahoo ansers...i just wanted to know your opinions about this...Does true love really exists???Will i ever get true partner in my life?????
    I'm sorry that women do that to you. Don't lose hope. Love comes in many shapes, sizes, ages, and at the most perfect time. There is always time for everything. Think of it this way. Each woman that has been in your life has taught you something about love or relationships. Each woman that you come across is helping to prepare you for that wonderful woman at the end of the road. I kept thinking that to myself. And now i'm with my perfect, loving, caring, life partner. Its all worth it. Dont let anything get you down. Just keep that in mind. And keep your mind open. The one you least expect can be your soul mate.Will i ever get true partner in my life?????
    no problem. Happy i could help =]

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    if you believe in true love..then i would say..yes, it exist...there is a time for everything so don't be so hurry to look for your partner in life, sooner or later you will find her..pray as well.
    Yes, it does exist. You just have to give it time. Get out there and meet people. True love doesn't come looking for you.
    You are struggling to get true love. I wonder you ever made any attempt to love at all. Venture out for love ans find out for yourself which is true and which is not true love.
    yes it does.....and once you found it you know. it just take some longer to find it. my suggestion...live like you do. Park your car on one side of the driveway, sleep on one side of the bed, etc. This way your putting out there in the universe that you are ready for a relationship (if you are) and it will naturally be attracted to you.
    all good things come to those who wait .. true love will come

    Is it true your partner doesn't like you as much and/or is cheating on you if.....?

    if he/she farts %26amp; burps in front of you as if he isn't embarrassed about it?


    its more understandable if you've been with your partner for a long time %26amp; are comfortable farting in front of eachother. but only after 2-3 months of dating, do you think you can fart in front of your boyfriend/girlfriend?Is it true your partner doesn't like you as much and/or is cheating on you if.....?
    Yea i believe I could fart and burp in front of my girlfriend even after just 2 or 3 months. Those are bodily functions and have nothing to do with cheating.Is it true your partner doesn't like you as much and/or is cheating on you if.....?
    Well I was with my Husband and he nor I had that much , disrespect for one another we would alway's just walk inot the bathroom, or if out side walk away for a minuet then come together again, and we lasted 15 yrs', until he passed away from , a fever he got tin P.R. and never came out of his coma.


    But then again that was us';';
    Listen to this lady...she has the answer to your question :p





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7tN1UmJ6鈥?/a>
    that has nothing to do with cheating or disliking you, dont worry, relax

    Is it true, that your partner may feel the IUD(birth control)while having intercourse?If so,does it hurt them?

    No, they may feel the string that hangs down from it, but not the IUD itself


    http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/birthcontro鈥?/a>





    http://www.pamf.org/teen/healthinfo/inde鈥?/a>Is it true, that your partner may feel the IUD(birth control)while having intercourse?If so,does it hurt them?
    no, thats not true, i have an IUD fitted and my partner cant feel it during intercourse.

    Is it true partner can leave you after?

    I am getting married to my partner of 2.5 years this saturday. We have been living together for 2 years. Of course their are ups and downs, around the fact i am aussie, born in sydney oz, and she is from nepal. She is on a protection visa and after huge amounts of money and stress the high courts have given her 28 days to leave australia (unless she pleads with the minister as the final fling to living here.). She has 2 kids and a 15 year marriage crumble in nepal and then 10 years ago fled to hong kong then to sydney on a tourist visa. She was rescued by a nepal man and they lived together for 2 years and he was going to marry her. Now i think he was deported, as he stayed 12 years in australia on a bridging visa and that is a long time. She has photos, and diamond ring, and he bought her a new car and lots of money when they were together. She said she broke up with him on bad terms and for the last 2 years i thought she was loving me, with massive amounts of control over me ( i cannot even go to bathroom without her followibng me). I lost friends and family to a point thru being under her control. I have never been married, i am 36 years old no kids. Now i found out this mornign by doing some secretive huntign in her draws that she has been calling her so called ex fiance for the last 2 years at least once a week. (sometimes 10 times a week or more). She says she hasnt rung him for many months....sooo....48 hours away from marriage..my first...my mum and dads first for their first son.....my parents are excited.....they dont live with me.....she follows me everywhere..i am home with her 7 days a week...i cannot even go to the shop to buy milk without her controlling behaviour coming in.......


    Also she wants me to go to nepal quickly after marriage on saturday to apply spouse visa, and then wait maybe 6 months for application process.


    Could my partner leave me after getting citizenship, even though i will look after her kids and everything.Is it true partner can leave you after?
    Cancel the wedding. Your parents will get over it. Worry about yourself not them. Your girlfriend is dishonest and probably wants you to pay her and her childrens way to Nepal so she can hook up with her boyfriend. You need to sit her down and confront her about the phone calls. Trust is very important in a marriage. Good luck.Is it true partner can leave you after?
    SHE WILL LEAVE YOU..OR USE YOU..SHE WILL FLIRT AROUND AND YOU WILL BECOME A GOOD BABY SITTER AND A GOOD HOUSE TAKE CARER ER..BE A MAN
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  • Is It True People Look For Their Mom/Dad In A Partner?

    People always say that a majority of that people look for their mom or dad in a partner.


    I hear that about men especially.


    Is that true?Is It True People Look For Their Mom/Dad In A Partner?
    True for who? You? Me? I think most people reference people they love and like in regarding a partner. I can't answer for you though.Is It True People Look For Their Mom/Dad In A Partner?
    That is so true. I did that my first marriage but didn't know it at the time. My dad was very controlling and a know it all. If he did not get his way about everything he would get mad about it. He would call my sister, our mom and me stupid all the time. When I was a teenager my dad would always call me a whore. I was a whore but never dated anyone at the time. I remember my dad always threatening to leave my mom for no reason. I ended up married to a man like my dad but still he was worse than my dad. My ex was an alcoholic, very controlling to me and my children, always calling me a stupid b****, and whore. If my ex could not get his way about everything then we would pay. He would mentally abuse my children and me. He was miserable and made me miserable. I had left my ex about a million times in 25 years of marriage. I would not live that way for the rest of my life like my mom had. I got divorced and thank God for that. I have never known of any men who have chosen to marry women like their mothers.
    noooooo!!! my bf is the complete opposite of my dad. My dad is very old fashioned when it comes to roles and he does NOTHING around the house. My boyfriend does everything around the house, he would do all the domestic chores if I asked him to. Plus personaloty wise they are also nothing alike.
    i think you just want somebody they will approve of








    my guy is 100 % opposite of my dad its crazy





    i looked for a bad boy and got one

    Is it true that love cannot last a lifetime and that most people get tired of their partner?

    Good question. True Love does last for a lifetime, because both are willing to listen and talk over everything and come to an agreement. That is what True Love is, it never ceases.





    The only other is infatuation love, which is what people seem is love, but have no idea of the other person feelings wants, needs, or communication. They are pretending and fooling themselves and others. It can make it very terrible relationship.





    True Love goes through Good Times and the Worst of Times, it learns and cares as well understanding themselves and others. True Love never disrespect each other. It never has suspention or doubts of each other. It has Faith to believe and Hope for each other.





    Good luckIs it true that love cannot last a lifetime and that most people get tired of their partner?
    I don't think that's true. I think love can last forever, assuming that it is true love. If you truly love your partner, then that love will last through anything!Is it true that love cannot last a lifetime and that most people get tired of their partner?
    No I don't think that's true at all.


    Love is about loving someone. and true love never fades.


    So True love can last a lifetime. You just gotta believe.
    not at all, if two people are in love it keeps getting better and better with time.
    yep

    Is it true that Communication is about making your partner agree with you?

    Communication is about two people compromising and listening to each other properly.sharing decisions and coming to a conclusion.Then acting upon the right choices, which reflect on both of our angles and points of view.With the power of love in our loving relationship,nothing can go wrong.I will always love thee.Is it true that Communication is about making your partner agree with you?
    Communication is about understanding each other. Looking at situations from other points of view not just yours. When you share things with your spouse it helps them understand why you do what you do. What your thinking behind things are.Is it true that Communication is about making your partner agree with you?
    No. It's about letting your partner know what's going on. Making your partner agree with you is called ';control.';
    based on your last few questions and now reading this one I believe you need to go back to class or school... go educate yourself a bit on common sense.
    Maybe making my partner UNDERSTAND me.....once he understands, he usually agrees, though.
    No. It is about understanding what each of you want and need and coming to a decision on it.
    What does phil say about the subject?





    In my mind no it doesn't.

    How can get right partner and true lover a right kind of girl which loves me very much i mean how can i recogs?

    you have to be the RIGHT partner in order to attract mind alike. :) Just be who you are and stop looking for her. All the best.How can get right partner and true lover a right kind of girl which loves me very much i mean how can i recogs?
    jisme sadagi ho, sanskar ho ,jo apne se badon ki respect kare, apne se choton ko pyar kare and humumer sathion se well behave kare aise koi ladki hi tumhari emotions ko samajh sakegi and relationship ko gahrai se janker tumhe khush rakh sakegi .


    Lekin dhyan rahe uski khoobsurati surat me nahi serat me hogi. agar answer sahi lage to reply kar dena.How can get right partner and true lover a right kind of girl which loves me very much i mean how can i recogs?
    you will just know it when he or she walks by..


    stop looking for it, and it will come find you :)..thats what i always say..lol
    do not worry about that. Have fun.

    My life partner says that there's a gay to straight couple yrs together ratio. is this true?

    something like 'if you've been together 5 yrs as a gay couple, you've been together 10 yrs in straight couple yrs'; is this true?My life partner says that there's a gay to straight couple yrs together ratio. is this true?
    I have never heard of this. I prefer to count my years with my partner in real time though.








    LMy life partner says that there's a gay to straight couple yrs together ratio. is this true?
    Thats a new one on me.





    I did read that one human year is equal to 7 dog years.
    lol that is sad, is it that hard to stay together in a gay relationship...
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  • We are looking for a true physic, my partner are looking to go into a business, not to sure what. Thanks?

    We aren't interest in being a a millioniare and paying for it?don't waste your time.We are looking for a true physic, my partner are looking to go into a business, not to sure what. Thanks?
    Okay, go for it, but only if you can answer this question: How will you know a true psychic if you find one?





    Is it because they will have accurate predictions? If they do turn out to be right you may say that they are a true psychic because the prediction was correct but if the prediction is wrong you will say they weren't a true psychic. Either way, the issue of what is a true psychic is still not addressed and you will never know.We are looking for a true physic, my partner are looking to go into a business, not to sure what. Thanks?
    Dear Whoever,





    I read Tarot Cards (for free). If you wish to choose a number between 1 and 78 (there are 78 cards in a Tarot Deck), I will be more than happy to read your card and email you what I see.





    My email is JulieViolette93@yahoo.com.au
    A true psychic does not charge for what the spirits give freely. Make a list of talents each of you has and that would be interesting to some in the general public.

    How do I get idea about my true life partner?

    Means who will be my life partner ?


    what is my love life? etcHow do I get idea about my true life partner?
    What is it with the psychic hotline type of questions tonight? Amazing...do you really think someone on this answer forum is going to be able to give you an accurate answer?





    Why don't you pray to God about your questions? He is the only one who really knows, anyway. Or decide what the answers to your questions will be, make the goals you need to reach in order to find your life's partner, and make it happen.How do I get idea about my true life partner?
    I am not convinced that we have a picture in our minds, or an idea in our heads as to what our ideal mate would be like.


    I AM convinced that once you come across it, it hits you like a brick to the head, and you just know.
    A psychic might be able to answer your question.
    try the horoscopes. this site is Really good.


    www.astrologyzone.com
    2001-Duke-82 Arizona-72


    2002- Maryland-64 Indiana-52


    2003-Syracuse-81 Kansas-78


    2004-UConn-82 Georgia Tech-73


    2005-North Carolina-75 Illinois-70

    How do I get idea about my true life partner?

    Means who will be my life partner ?


    what is my love life? etcHow do I get idea about my true life partner?
    What is it with the psychic hotline type of questions tonight? Amazing...do you really think someone on this answer forum is going to be able to give you an accurate answer?





    Why don't you pray to God about your questions? He is the only one who really knows, anyway. Or decide what the answers to your questions will be, make the goals you need to reach in order to find your life's partner, and make it happen.How do I get idea about my true life partner?
    I am not convinced that we have a picture in our minds, or an idea in our heads as to what our ideal mate would be like.


    I AM convinced that once you come across it, it hits you like a brick to the head, and you just know.
    A psychic might be able to answer your question.
    try the horoscopes. this site is Really good.


    www.astrologyzone.com
    2001-Duke-82 Arizona-72


    2002- Maryland-64 Indiana-52


    2003-Syracuse-81 Kansas-78


    2004-UConn-82 Georgia Tech-73


    2005-North Carolina-75 Illinois-70

    To the men: what are some deep questions you'd like to be asked about urself by a true friend/partner?

    Can I have some examples...of what you'd ';really'; liked to be asked about urself for a real conversation to get to know you and ur life better.To the men: what are some deep questions you'd like to be asked about urself by a true friend/partner?
    what drives me and makes me feel passionate. there is a big different between enjoying doing something and feeling passionate about doing something.To the men: what are some deep questions you'd like to be asked about urself by a true friend/partner?
    REALLY ANYTHING YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT A GUY IS A GOOD QUESTION AND SHOWS THAT YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT HIM. LET HIM GET DEEP WITH YOU WHEN HE FEELS COMFORTABLE WITH YOU
    I like it wen my girls ask me about my childhood it really makes me think that they want to know about me, it shows that u care u kno?
    men are not deep. we would rather stay away from that sorta stuff
    ';can i buy you 10 beers?';
    Sorry im not a man But I thought it was a very good qeustion and I hope it can help me out too.... Nice Work =)

    How to know that the person u r dating is your true partner?

    well i am dating a guy and sumtimes it feels that he is perfect but the next moment i feel like crying when he doesn't listen to me and that gives me second thoughts about this relationship,because i really love him and i want to marry him.How to know that the person u r dating is your true partner?
    just trust your heartHow to know that the person u r dating is your true partner?
    Tell him in a private quiet moment how you feel about him ';not listening to you.'; Then tell him how much you love him and see how it goes from there.
    say to him your feelings, some guys are not really the romnatic and showy type, while osme just dont talk... if you really do think he is for you, work on the relationship, there may be rough times in a relationship but leran how to deal with it since its the only thing that would make you happy some other time... communication is impt... learn how he wants to communicate to you...
    you dont know....thats why you date to find out.


    Tell him to listen. If he doesnt listen to you telling him to listen, then you have something to think about
    just trust your heart and if you do it will tell you
    if both of you can go along with each other. enjoy each others company. maybe you should spend time first of knowing him very well. don't just say that you wanna marry him because you like him. Try to think it very well that the guy is the best partner that you are willing to live for the rest of your life. Maybe what you feel for now is not just love... maybe it's just an infatuation or like because you're just dating. you should better know him first. coz there are people who is only good at first then in the next day they are not like the person you know before.

    What I do fo r myself to get a true partner?

    That's one of life's greatest mysteries.What I do fo r myself to get a true partner?
    It's not a mystery!! Trust in God. The way you are asking the question points to a single person who is still has a mindset of the flesh and trying to meet your own needs. Instead, start reading your Bible. It tells you how to prepare yourself for a mate, how to discern a good mate, and most of all, to put your faith in Jesus. Here's a quote to start you out: ';The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'';(Genesis 2:18 NIV). The source below also goes into more depth about the topics I mentioned before, and it's all from the Bible--read it!What I do fo r myself to get a true partner?
    don't worry, you know it when the time come. meantime be greatful with what you have.
    Be yourself!, they should like/love you for u, dont be phoney, cause sooner or later the real u will come out, then he/she wont know if your being truthful or not.
    Formula: Trial and error = frustration


    Look in the mirror and say it aloud: I am loved. I am smart. I am Hot.


    Things to do :


    1. Be yourself.


    2. Don't overlook too much and not to less.


    3. Don't change moods.
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  • Is it true that your partner is chosen for you even before you're born? God knows before you know?

    if so, should i just stop searching and live life? when god is ready, he will places my mate in front of me, when its a good time?





    for all non religious people there, replace ';God'; with ';higher power';Is it true that your partner is chosen for you even before you're born? God knows before you know?
    Yes its true. God knows who you're going to marry. My mother told me once who ever is not meant to be for you, then he never will no matter what you do. My husband came out of the blue and i never thought in a million years that i would be married to him. But one thing you have to be clear about is that you cant just sit and do nothing and wait for her to come say heyyy I'm your future wife lets get married!!!!





    You still have to work on it.Is it true that your partner is chosen for you even before you're born? God knows before you know?
    Some have thought that God increases endlessly in knowledge as well as in glory and dominion. Others hold to the more traditional view that God's knowledge, including the foreknowledge of future free contingencies, is complete. Despite these differing views, there is accord on two fundamental issues: (1) God's foreknowledge does not causally determine human choices, and (2) this knowledge, like God's power, is maximally efficacious. No event occurs that he has not anticipated or has not taken into account in his planning.
    I guess that depends on whether you believe in the Divine Watchmaker who put everything in place down to the last detail, or whether you believe in a Creator who gives us free will.





    Me, I believe in free will. It sure makes the universe look like there is a bunch of random stuff going on. But it doesn't mean we can't have personal happiness.





    But here is a thought - instead of worrying about finding the right person, concentrate on being the right person. Put your energy into building a rich, full life on your own. That way, when you bump into another person with a rich, full life, who happens to be attracted to you and vice versa, you can live your rich, full lives together. The kind of relationship you can this way is far healthier than any other.
    No lol


    but maybe


    Maybe he know who would work for you in a way.


    Read Hosea in the bible.


    God had Hosea marry a fornicating wife so he can feel how


    All of his kids were not his..... Sad.


    God felt when his people turned away from him....


    Hosea was A prophet and a man of god.


    The choice is yours when marriage


    The mate is not as important compared to the plan he has for your life...





    Was it is God's plan for David to kill his best friend and sleep with his wife? Nope But he did want David to be king of Israel or a while.


    And I dont thing God wanted him to have the hundreds of wives either


    Gods plan %26gt; Our Faults





    and also he knows some people will not find a mate or people reject them... Read Isaiah chapter 56





    I think Issac did not get married until his mom died and he was like 40
    I think your soul mate is revealed to you at a time when you need it most and that searching for it is futile. I met my husband two days after I buried my mother and my father had passed 6 years later. At age 30 I was an orphan and I truly believe that they, not God, sent my husband to me to take care of me since they couldn't.
    I do believe that God designes ';that special one'; for each and every person; however, because of free will, we don't always marry that person... unfortunately. I think the divorce rate is so high b/c people just ';marry someone';... not their soul-mates.





    My husband is, NO DOUBT, my soul-mate. Our parents were friends before we were even born... so essentially, we've known each other since before birth. I remember being at summer camp when we were 7 and my now-husband walked right up to my dad and said, ';Mr... I'm gonna marry Heather when I get big!!';. And ya know... 16 years later, we were getting married. There was never a question in our minds that we were made for each other and it was God's plan for us to be together... we were just too stubborn and in our ways there for a while to recognize it.





    And to answer your question as to if you should stop searching: I think you should look, get to know people, and pray about each female you encounter. Pray that God would let you know when you have met your future wife. Don't ';jump the gun'; on any of them... You'll know...
    I would think not! If you ever found god's choice and married and then your spouse died you would never remarry. Or would you? Did god have a second choice in mind for you? What if you met god's second choice first? Would god's first choice live forever single?





    If you murdered god's first choice would he give you a second choice? Did He know you were going to kill his first choice? and approved so you could marry His second choice? And what about people that marry five or six times? Why did they have six choices and I only had one. Unfair!!
    Yes and no.





    First of all, no matter what, God has given us free will. We make our own choices. As to who we marry, when we marry, why we marry, how we work on that marriage, etc. That's up to us. I don't believe in pre-destination, and I don't believe that God has my entire life planned out for me. If he did, what use would it be living it? Or I could just rob and steal and say well God let me so God planned for it and God wanted it to happen. God gave us free will, and we can do with it what we will. So in that aspect, no it's not all planned out for us, and we do need to make our own choices and put our own effort into it.





    Second of all, yes I do believe that God creates a partner for each of us. I do believe he makes someone for each of us that is truly compatible with us, our other half, our partner in life. I believe that. But that doesn't mean it's a cake walk. We still have to find that person. We still have to be clear enough of heart and mind to be able to recognize that person as our future spouse when we see them. We have to be willing to put ourselves out there, make good relationship choices, work on ourselves and our relationships, etc. It doesn't all just fall into our laps. We have to work towards that goal too.
    I don't think that that can be true.





    If so, what of all the BAD marriages...AND some people go their entire lives without finding someone special and lasting....





    I don't think you should be looking so much as you should be available.





    I also think you should date a lot..to keep from becoming bored and desperate and also to help you understand what you want and need
    I believe this to be true. I think that you should live life and when the time is right and you least expect it, your mate will appear.
    It is possible......it is all you how your were raised and what you have experianced.......only you and your higher power know for sure.
    There is no truth to it because it is not provable, but I like to think that's the way it works.
    I think it is you own choice! God may help you out but the choice is still your.
    well if that is the case i want to know what the **** i did wrong as i keep getting the nuttas
    NO... GOD IS A LIE !
    I sure hope not....otherwise I have some legitimate complaints to God.
    No....thats a lie.
    Nope...i do not believe that at all. I believe we make that choice through many circumstances. If not, we would all be happier.

    How do I know that the man I married is my true life partner?

    If you fight sometimes-yet you still are together no matter what


    If he likes the little things about you-like how you laugh or your favorite flower


    If he loves you unconditionally-if he will do anything to keep your happiness


    And finally (no matter how corny it sounds) what your heart saysHow do I know that the man I married is my true life partner?
    You don't. That is what makes life so interesting and scary,too.If we knew all the answers up front we wouldn't be challenged to live life --just to go through the motions.I believe that people have to truly work for the duration of a marriage to fulfill each other.Be honest and experimental with your partner--avoid ruts--be spontaneous.Be romantic.Be supportive.Be friends.How do I know that the man I married is my true life partner?
    If you have to ask....he's not.
    a little late to be asking that question...
    Are you happy more often than not? I'm not sure if that is proof of anything, but it is a sign that you made a good choice, or not.
    if you are asking then you may have problems.





    if he worships you (hugs, kisses, grabbing - no that is not lust!), then you are his life partner.
    You should have prayed and seek god for your answer. It's not to late
    if you are second guessing then maybe he isn't i know its different but i know my boyfriend is right for me because no one crosses my mind but him and i BELIEVE in us and i don't second guess..if you have any other feelings then maybe he isn't for you.
    does he do things for you like if he goes and gets a drink does he bring one back for you regardless if you drink it or not when you are sick does he take care you the house the children or maybe he tells the kids to be quite moms not feeling well
    when you see this man across the room do you feel like the luckiest women in the world?





    when he touches you, you feel chills of delight up your spine?





    when you talk to one another he makes you feel special?





    can you talk to him about anything and he has your best interest in heart? if you answered yes to most of these there you go, and finally if he respects you, does not abuse you then i would think hes the one
    Well, you can know that you should probably self-evaluate your choice if you're asking for help on a random internet forum.





    Your life choice is yours to make, If you love him and he loves you, than the decision is already made.
    If he is the only man you cant get out of your head. and dont let anyone tell you it is to late just because you are married, if you are asking this question then its obvious there is compatition. I hope you make the right choice.
    Because you agreed to marry him in the first place. There may be hard times. I've seen it with my parents, but they just had their 10 year anniversary.

    Is it true that having sex with your partner would lower your blood pressure?

    they always quote that having sex with your partner would as what they believe lower your blood pressure and somehow lower the possibility of having hypertension??Is it true that having sex with your partner would lower your blood pressure?
    Sex, like any other type of exercise can most definitely lower your blood pressure over time. Once your body gets in shape your heart doesn't have to work as hard...which leads to a lower BP reading.

    If one partner has their true node squaring your Mercury in chart...is this very bad?

    what this means too?





    if involving 7th house for mercury squaring the node in 7th..what would this interpret as?





    please explain what you can





    thanks!If one partner has their true node squaring your Mercury in chart...is this very bad?
    this is not good as maybe the true node values are in disagreement with the person with mercury as to issues of marriage and purpose involving both since both are in 7th houses.





    not sure how bad though.
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  • In law enforcement, is it true that some male officers don't entirely trust female partners in the field?

    I'd imagine so. There are women who can do the job very well physically and emotionally.


    However, some men who are partnered with females when they go in the field or hostile territory get very nervous about them. They wouldn't entirely trust the women who serve with them on the street, and the guys may be more focused on protecting her than getting the mission completed, or case closed successfully in the case of detectives. Is this true that women who join the force and are serious with their job need to prove themselves that they can fight and do the job well in order to gain the trust of the men, and be able to work cohesively? I hear there are women who join the force only to find a man to get married to.In law enforcement, is it true that some male officers don't entirely trust female partners in the field?
    Protective would be a better word.


    P.S. I know a woman who is a martial artist, former Marine, and police officer who is very capable. She is trusted by all the men in her department. That said, they are naturally going to be protective of her (they're protective of all of their own too though) even though they know they can trust her.In law enforcement, is it true that some male officers don't entirely trust female partners in the field?
    Female police officers cause unnecessary deaths. The lack the physical strength to confront male alledged vilolators. What happens too oftens is they resort to deadly force wheras a male officer could have easily handled the situation.





    Female police officers provide a valuable contribution bhy doing dective work. Beyond that child crimes and after that not much help.
    im sure there are a few women in the Field like that but im sure there are a few men also like that......so i could see why one partner would have to feel like they would need too protect his/her partner and lose track of the real objective at hand......I hear men just join the force to get a gun in their hands.....see how that sounds sexist?
    Like most officers, my trust comes from personal observations of how you act, not on your gender. I've worked with several females and not had a problem with any.
    Let's face it I'm sure that many male officers don't trust other male officers cause they are not as strong. It is no different with female officers.
    Yes it is.

    $50 million dollars, true love with a gorgeous partner for life, or a pet monkey?

    Which one of the three would you pick and why?$50 million dollars, true love with a gorgeous partner for life, or a pet monkey?
    true love because it's something i've been longing for$50 million dollars, true love with a gorgeous partner for life, or a pet monkey?
    I learn from others mistakes... look here:


    http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c71/da…





    I'll take the monkey !!!
    I would likely take the money.





    - True Love; doesn't pay the rent. Sorry.





    - A Monkey!! HELL NO!! Watch this!!


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgS0KgT5A…


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFL0NaOBZ…
    I already have two pet monkeys, lol, and they only cost me $7500.


    No where near $50 million. haha.





    So I would take the money.


    :)
    the money cause i could buy a monkey and get me a chick.


    problem solved
    $50,000,000

    Is it true that most single adults date and have several partners they aren't in commiteed relationships with?

    I know I sound like an idiot.





    Watching shows like Friends or Seinfeld, or many other tv shows or movies really, the characters have sex with pretty much everyone they have a date with.





    No one I know actually does this. Is it something that's common in more urban areas (I'm in small-town Texas), is it made up just for the entertainment industry, or what?Is it true that most single adults date and have several partners they aren't in commiteed relationships with?
    It's not really like that for the most part... Although there are some folks who are like that. There has to be an exception to every rule, right?





    That being said, Hollywood loves to glamorize and sex up everything, don't they?





    Me personally - I'm just too picky for my own good. I go on TONS of dates with different folks (used to have several dates with different people per week), HOWEVER, I rarely slept with any of them. It takes a lot more than a casual connection to get into my pants, lol.





    DATING various people is very healthy, I believe. (I come from the same small East Texas town as you do, so I know what you're talking about - and actual DATES are hard to come by there... most of my friends ended up marrying their high school sweethearts and so forth, instead of playing the field for a bit, like me. I'm only 24, and one of the few single folks out of my ';group'; of friends.)





    It's easier to have a wider selection of people when you're in a larger metro city. I know when I lived in your town, I knew everyone there and vice versa, so it was hard to date - and then IF I did chose to date a few different people, then being a woman I got a ';reputation'; even if I didn't have sex with these people. Ah, the double standard...





    Sorry for the rant, lol.Is it true that most single adults date and have several partners they aren't in commiteed relationships with?
    Many people feel that if they are grown and mature enough they can make the decision to sleep with whom ever they prefer. A lot of people also feel that if the sex is not good then why be with a person ,thus they have to sleep with everyone they date. I think it depends on your moral and religious beliefs how you act in a relationship. However being from Chicago I know many people who sleep with whom ever they please with no concience behind it.
    lol I agree with you... Maybe they still not found the right one for them. I think most them all are so picky %26amp; has a high standard when it comes to a relationship than to the young one. Maybe commitment for them is lifetime so they has to be choose wisely.
    just like you mentioned it only in the tv show and sitcoms that such a thing a happens....sometimes there are some in real life but it more of an exemptions than a rule,

    Is it true that 95% of all American women have had multiple sex partners in the same night?

    In the same night? No, I do not think that is true.Is it true that 95% of all American women have had multiple sex partners in the same night?
    I find that statistic very high and rather hard to believe...Is it true that 95% of all American women have had multiple sex partners in the same night?
    welp guess that puts me in the 5 percent bracket
    I would not be the least bit surprised.
    I wondered what that strange noise was.
    you wish
    not me
    No. What is you experience? I would think that would answer it.
    I highly doubt that, that would probably be more true if it was a man.
    Probably more like 95% of all American prostitutes.
    I'd say it's the opposite.....maybe 5% have and 95% have not!!
    I guess I fall into the 5% that don't, because I think that's disgusting.
    Is it true that 95% of males believe everything they hear?
    You really must stop hanging out where the prostitutes hang...
    If it is true then I'm one of the 5% that has not

    Is it true that when you ask a dude how many sex partners he's had...?

    You subtract 10. And when you ask a chick how many she's had you ADD 5?





    I've always heard that and have wondered if there are studies that prove this out. What size control group was used?Is it true that when you ask a dude how many sex partners he's had...?
    ';If you add the 5 and those 5 slept around w/more people than you have a chain reaction of slutrus';





    is ANT being a manwhore is that why he asks..





    oh oh!Is it true that when you ask a dude how many sex partners he's had...?
    That's stupid. If you've had sex with 10 people, then you've had sex with 10 people, whether your a guy or a girl. If your a virgin, your a virgin, guy or girl. You might want to think about all the nasty diseases you can get (or pregnancy risks you take) if you can subtract 10 from the number of people you've slept with and still have some left over.
    Throwing stones nailed it right on the little head. I automatically discard a guy if he starts bragging, especially about his #. If you need to brag about anything and need to remind people how cool you are...well, you are not fooling anyone but yourself.





    *It's totally different to mention an accomplishment of yours, and super sexy! All you need to do is mention it and say you are proud of yourself and let it be! Let the girl brag about you-don't do it for yourself.
    That sounds right for guys anyway.





    The principle is the same for everything!.... no matter what you ask a guy he will always exaggerate. If you ask what grade someone got, they will add a few percent on top.... or if you ask someone's time in track and field they will always subtract a few seconds.. everyone does it!





    might be right what you said about girls... bu I don't know
    My roommate told me he had sex with over 18 different woman I don't believe that shyt b/c he is UGLY. And that is F*king gross, and Nasty. I swore he had some kind of STD until we donated blood together, but it's still nasty.





    He's 25 and said he started F*king at 19, but I still can't figure out who would F*k him lol.





    Ps-I agree with throwing stones. Sex is special and intimate to me, sleeping around is not appealing at all.
    I don't think that's true. Maybe it is for younger people, but my bf and I know each other's number and as far as I know he's been honest with me. He has had more partners than I have, but we knew going in that neither one of us was a virgin.
    I think it's called the rule of three, and you multiple by three for women and divide by three for men. So if a woman told you she's had three partners in total, it's probably closer to nine. According to the rule of three that is.
    That's so not true. So if a guy says one and you subtract ten he would have had -9?


    If I say I'm a Virgin you'd automatically add five? There's no way to win.





    help:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    10?....5?....gross....people act like having sex is an accomplishment, anyone can do it and there are plenty of people with low self-esteem willing to give it up in a heart beat....so yah I see whores and losers lying about it .
    No idea, and never heard of it. I've never told anyone my number, it's my number and I'd like to keep it private.
    if u would ask me i would say 0





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    lol thats funny because I heard that it only takes 8 people to be considered dangerous of having dieases.
    Really? There are no studies, it's just a bunch of young-minded people being idiots.
    Uh,no.


    Ha,i've heard that too.Some people are too ashamed and lie
    I don't really think it's true but I've heard that you add 3 to women and subtract 3 from the men.
    hawat
    either way it is to many. As many diseases as their are out there.
    dont believe little school kids.
    I am a guy...and I can never let anybody know...how many girls I had sex with to be honest.
    lmao that's funny.








    I hate people.
    Wow! Is it that? That seems so easy.
    American Pie, right?





    I forgot how it went but I think it was subtract 2 for guys though....
    That's so gross why would you have sex with more than 5 people. puke and i'm not that young.
    why would that be true?
    lol isn't that from one of the American Pie movies?





    and no, I would not say that's true!
    idk

    Would any TRUE Christians on here, desire to link with me, and be daily prayer partners?

    For everyone that views this, and you know the LORD, please pray for my family and myself. I need a support group. I don't have the energy to go OUT searching. So, I believe God will place the help I need right at my fingertips. God is evrywhere, and I KNOW He knows all my problems, and every situation I'm going through. Therefore, He will eventually connect likeminded individuals together, that we WILL conquer the enemy, and all of his imps. Thank you in advance, and may God continue to bless you and yours, and Heaven forever smile upon you.Would any TRUE Christians on here, desire to link with me, and be daily prayer partners?
    Father God, I would like to Pray for this sister in Christ and Thank you for awnsering her prayers. I would like to pray for her and her families problems, that you know. You are the Alpha and Omega, Beginning and the End. It is written where two or more agree it shall be done by You in heaven. and also what we bind on earth it shall be bound in heaven, what we loose on earth it shall be loosed in heaven. Right now I bind Satin in the Lives of this sister and her family. And I loose the Power of the Holy Spirit and Your angels in these people's lives and worship you in Jesus Name. Amen





    Sister, you have all the power of God within you. Jesus Dies on the Cross for all of our sins and sickness. Stay in the Word. ';Truth comes form hearing, and Hearing from the Word of God.'; God Bless You and Your Family. And remember Satin does not have any control over youWould any TRUE Christians on here, desire to link with me, and be daily prayer partners?
    Sounds great. How do I join?
    Sure but the internet is no substitute for fellowship. You need a local group of believers to meet with. I tell you what; I'll pray for you to find some believers to pray with.





    God bless you and your family,





    W
    God Bless you
    I would love to
    I would love to, God Bless you and your family.
    Why would you need one? Are prayers greater in number? Do you think God will hear you if more people pray??





    If you need someone to TALK to, feel free to contact me. It's always easier to talk to a stranger - we are unbiased! :)
    i would be happy to pray for you...send me an e-mail...i am an engineer and am not on-line everyday but I do check my mail pretty reguarly
    As much as you desire prayer, you need to have faith and act on the belief that you are being supported by prayer. Step out and leave your cocoon, approach a place where the type of support group that offers fellowship, in the flesh. There you will find honest love and accountability. Then, you will reap the benefits for you, your self image and strength, your family, your life.
    maybe.
    you got it...
    Sounds wonderful to me. I'm in.
    Count me in.... Praise GOD that we can come together and help each other out... GOD be with you and yours
    My prayer is that you email me so I can prey with you ditzhitz@yahoo.com i can send you some stuff to help you daily
    oh this is all about you then? such CHRISTIAN charity you are exhibiting there, honeybuns. how about praying for others with bigger problems than you for once? hehehe....
    Yes...I will pray with you and for you and your family. He loves you and I do, too. E-mail me

    Wednesday, February 10, 2010

    Is it true that when your first get pregnant that you and your partner could start arguing more than often?

    When I got pregnant with my first daughter, my husband and I fought all the time.





    In the first few weeks (before we found out), we suddenly started arguing over housework and cooking and stupid, petty things that don't really matter. Then we found out we were having a baby, and we were like ';So that's what our problem is!';





    Then came the big issues. He thought I was working too much; I thought I should work and save as much as possible before the baby arrived. I thought we should move closer to our families; he thought we would be just fine where we were an hour away. The list could go on.





    Things eventually worked out fine, and with compromise and communication our arguments came to a mutually satisfying end. But those were hard times and sometimes I wished I could just run away!Is it true that when your first get pregnant that you and your partner could start arguing more than often?
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    Is it true that when your first get pregnant that you and your partner could start arguing more than often?
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    no we actually stopped arguing and got along better
    Honey, i think that that is true in some cases especially mine. I think it was the stress of having no money. Besides i felt like i could kill him!!!
    Yes, trust me from experience it happens
    It's entirely possible. Your hormones go crazy during pregnancy, which makes you more irritable that usual.





    And lilherby, once again, stop answering ';uhhhh'; to every question. It is extremely rude and annoying.
    uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    no but you would probably experience more mood swings to trigger arguments.
    We actually grew closer when I got pregnant. Not really arguing at all.
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  • Do you really ever find your true partner?

    as in a soul mate..or do u just keep searching or adjust..Do you really ever find your true partner?
    keeping searching if you see him let him know that soon I hope we will be togetherDo you really ever find your true partner?
    Not a soul mate, but an Enchanted Spiritual Companion...13 years after our divorce.
    yes in dreams. lol. all the best. may u find , if havent already. my best wishes are with u. hey may i know ur name. if u can tell somehow, if u cant tell here.

    Is it true that justin berfield and jason felts are together as partners?

    i heard it's true

    Is it true that Businesses no longer have to offer medical to the partner of the worker?

    That seems unfair. It isn't their fault they can't get married.








    I live in a glass house..../I am a homophobic=%26gt; Homosapians scare the hell outta me! ;_Is it true that Businesses no longer have to offer medical to the partner of the worker?
    No, dear, it is not true. What is true is that it has never been a legal requirement that businesses offer same-sex partner insurance benefits to their employees. Those companies that do are under no legal obligation but have chosen to do so, which is commendable.





    When same-sex marriage is made legal, the same benefits offered to heterosexual couples will, by law, have to be extended to the married partners in these unions. Until then, support the businesses who, out of thier own progressive and magnanimous nature, support their employees.Is it true that Businesses no longer have to offer medical to the partner of the worker?
    In the US they have never been forced to offer this benefit. It is still quite legal to fire someone for being gay, not rent housing to them, etc.

    I would like to know 1 thing. How do you know when you have found your true partner?

    I am talking about marriage.I would like to know 1 thing. How do you know when you have found your true partner?
    You just know, love has no explanations or definitions, when the time comes, you just know it. Basic instinctsI would like to know 1 thing. How do you know when you have found your true partner?
    because they r always on your mind,you cant wait until the next time u see each other,u can talk or do anything together,you cant see yourself with anyone else.
    over and over again, i will say it, you just know! if you have to ask, you may not have them. i always wondered until i met my wife. the first few days i was with her, i knew we were going to have something special. more importantly, as months went on, it was overwhelmingly clear that we were perfect together. i don't believe in fate or destiny or soul mates, but we are so good together. 5 years and our love is stronger than yesterday, it gets stronger every single day. we love being together and hate being apart. we are accused of looking like newlyweds all the time.
    You know when you're comfortable about the idea of spending the rest of your life with them and that if any problems arise between you(and they will, even the best couples fight, those who believe happy couples can't fight are the ones who divorce more because they can't handle conflict or crisis if it comes up) that you're prepared to face them together. Marriage is alot of work, but if you know what you're getting into and you are happy with your partner being the one you face life with, then you know you have found the one.





    (that being said, there's more than just one person out there for each person, So if it doesn't work, you haven't lost a soulmate, you just gained an opportunity to find a more suitable partner)
    I don't think it's a question you ask yourself.


    When I met my fiance I looked at him, I spent time with him and I knew very quickly that he was the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.





    While we have had more then our fair share of ups and downs, mess-ups, silly breakups, and an infidelity on his part, we have never given up on our love and we have always worked on it and now we are in a place that is so loving and wonderful that I can't imagine life without him.





    What I discovered is this. When you ';love'; someone because you need them it is not really love, but when you need someone because you love them, this is love.





    When you know that you could live your life without them, but you don't want to.
    Trust me, dont think abt it too much, if its real/true/long lasting ull know!!!something abt it will let u know!!!


    relax
    I think that you just know.
    when you want yo spend every second you have around them. you dont care how beutiful they are, and you feel sick until you see hear again.

    Is it true that if you don't give your partner space in a relationship, it gets boring?

    ok so we been going out for about 4 months, we almost talk everyday for about 2 or 3 hours in the morning and in the afternoon and now that i started classes, we just see each other in the afternoons..





    But I ask one of my friends and she tells me if we don't give each other space that later our relationship will get boring





    Is that true?Is it true that if you don't give your partner space in a relationship, it gets boring?
    Absence makes the heart grow fonder..Is it true that if you don't give your partner space in a relationship, it gets boring?
    I've never really been in a relationship before, so that could or could not be true. I mean, if you truly love this girl wouldn't you want to be in her presence all the time? But then again, its unhealthy to spend so much time with her that you don't even have time for your other friends.
    I don't know. My bestfriend has never once left her partner they are both clingy to each other, but they give each other room to breathe.





    Answer another F%26amp;R question?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Mystery gives the relationship spice, distance makes memory fond, etc. Everyone needs some time away from a significant other, and everyone's needs are of course different. If neither partner complains, no harm done.
    YES. you should also miss each other somehow :)
    i think that it jus gets predicable

    Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?

    Im trying to change the bad into good with my boyfriend but it doesnt seem to be working.. it does for like 2 weeks then i end up in tears again? i feel like me trying to change him is only gonna change me.. am i right? eg.. Arrogance, bad attitude?... ETC.? and lately he keeps telling me ''dont tell me what to do!! if im gonna do something i will do it?!?'' im not a moaner but all he does is just embaress me when were out for dinner for example always moaning at the waiters because somethings not right?! bla bla and all i said to him was.. ''do u have to moan about it?! just leav it!'' and he said dont tell me what to do!!! and he went off on one.. and i started to cry.. because all he does is makes me angry and cry... ur not supposed to be like that with someone you love?... and he said he was angry with something else.. but in a relationship arnt u supposed to talk to your partner like a bestfriend and know what their feeeling?.. its all about communication and he cant do that... what to do.... ARGHH!!Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?
    Oh boy, you've got a real bad one here! First, NO, you will not be able to change his personality and second, he is a toxic person that you need to get away from. You deserve better than to be yelled at, embarrassed, belittled, and bewildered! You will never know where you stand with this guy %26amp; he likes it that way. Look for someone who is positive by nature. You don't need this for one more minute! His loss.Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?
    Yes, u said it, trying to change him will only change u, it will make u suffer from depression and blood pressure, u may suffer a heart attack.


    It is only a mad girl, madly in love who can tolerate this guy, who embarrasses u in public, and shouts at u, is insensitive to u and does not care about your feelings.
    I'm afraid the answer's in the question there. You can't change someone's personality and you either have to live with it or get rid of them. I think that if you don't like a person's personality then you shouldn't be around them, it's as simple as that.
    You Can Change Them, If They Want To Be Changed.


    But In A Relationship You Gotta Take The Good With The Bad.


    Also In The Scenario You Gave About The Meal, You Did Kinda Have A Go At Him, When Saying 'Do You Have To Moan About It!?'
    You cant change anybodies personality. Happy.go.lucky people stay that way all there life and visa versa. You can bury it for a while but it always comes back. If you don't like the bum then get shot of him, Your only here once.
    i don't get why you are with him, what attracted you to the guy. i mean it sounds like he's always been like this, and now you wanna change him, that won't work.
    Walk away. He's not hearing you, he won't adjust his attitude, and frankly my dear, there are plenty of other fellas out there, so don't get into a twist over this guy. Ditch him. You're worth it!
    Never change them, impossible !!!!!!!!!!
    When I started dating my guy he had a very mad (hit things) temper. I told him I can not be with someone with a temper like that. I told him to change for him not for me %26amp; he did. His temper was not good for me, him or anyone else that is why I said something but the little things I just let slide %26amp; learn to joke about them because why be with someone if you have to change them to make it work.





    If there are things that you really cant live with find someone who would be better for you and if you really love this guy then just let somethings go, Im sure there are things about you he would like to change.
    you sound vry frustrated. You are very wise though. You already can see that by trying to change him you are just changing yourself and not necesarily for the better. To answer your question, you can have an influence on your man as time goes by, when two people become one, there is generally change on both sides as your thoughts and minds come together. This isnt something that is forced, but happens as you grow together.





    The only thing you are capable of changing is YOU, maybe a change in your aproach or attitude will change your partner. maybe your just not meant to be together.





    Whatever happens. Good Luck
    one the things about life is freedom of choice. you cannot change your partner but you can be an example to them. you do the classy thing maybe something will stick. dont worry about his moaning, maybe if you ignore him he'll realise how unattractive it is and pull his socks up. until then if you want to make it work turn the other when behaves inappropiately. if you can't do this then you should not be with him. if you continue to tell him stuff he'll feel controled and start displaying worst attitudes. to make a relationship work have to learn a bit of tolerance.
    you cant change anyone in this world. no amount of fighting and screaming and crying and making a scene is going to change anybody, ever, especially a guy who is completely different from you, doesnt care if you're happy or if you guys get along, is probably about to move to the next planet to escape your immature dramatic and ridiculous hysterical behavior. and says that he won't change. you sound so annoying and bossy i think i would yell at waiters too if i were your boyfriend. (lol and i never take the guy's side either). break up with him and go take a look at yourself, you shouldnt' cry unless somebody dies or something not because of the boo hoo how sad for you news that you can not make a guy into the little robot pet that you want.
    i think you have lost or had a damage in the respect aspect of your relationship. its clearly how he talks with you. if he's angry with something or someone else and at the same time truly loves you, he wont be able to vent it on you because he loves you.





    we can't change people specially our spouses, but they can help themselves change if they honestly feel that we are sincere when we respect their efforts in trying to change, when we appreciate them in spite of struggles to change and if they are still accepted however they are.





    have a good time with each other. i hope you'll have a time out, maybe a date, an informal setting then pinch in this topic lightly. maybe he'd try to be honest if he want it to work. be careful also that this might be the start that he'd be thinking of divorce.





    hope this helps.
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  • Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?

    You can waltz only with Matildas.Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?
    I have never once in my life met a girl named Matilda.


    Not even an Australian one.Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?
    True, but because there are not many Matildas anymore, compared to Britneys, Kylies and Madonnas; the waltz is almost extinct, like swagmen, troopers, and squatters.
    not sure, but they do still ask if you've ever been convicted of a crime before you enter australia... i didn't know that was still mandatory to enter australia.... :)
    what, some laws, or some matildas, require you to jump into a billabong?





    i've never had a problem as my name is matilda. it's a shame when we get those international ballroom dancing comps in australia, the competition is never really fair - only australians named matilda are allowed to dance...
    Only if your partner's name is Matilda AND only if your partner is a sheep.
    Yes! Here's the law in full:


    Once a jolly swagman camped by a billabong,


    Under the shade of a coolibah tree,


    And he sang as he watched and waited 'til his billy boiled


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    And he sang as he as he watched and waited 'til his billy boiled,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Down came a jumbuck to drink at the billabong,


    Up got the swagman and grabbed him with glee,


    And he sang as he stowed that jumbuck in his tucker bag,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    And he sang as he stowed that jumbuck in his tucker bag,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Down came the squatter, mounted on his thoroughbred,


    Up came the troopers, one, two, three,


    ';Where's that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?';


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    ';Who's that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?';,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Up got the swaggy and jumped into the billabong,


    ';You'll never catch me alive,'; said he,


    And his ghost may be heard as you passed by that billabong,


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me


    And his ghost may be heard as you passed by that billabong,


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';
    no


    what benefit would that be to the Australians
    lol no.
    Waltz
    Yeah, that's why I gave up waltzing %26amp; took up doing the roo-trot (apologies to my cousin, Brer Fox) instead.
    I'd believe it, we're the most powerful country in the world and look at some of the STUPID laws we have over here
    What if you have a piece of corregated iron??
    No, not true.The song was writen a man named Banjo Paterson in 1895 and became Australia's most well liked, and sang tune.
    Definitely. I love how you are so informative about Australia. We pay people very big money here to promote our Country.
    I Doubt It.

    Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?

    Im trying to change the bad into good with my boyfriend but it doesnt seem to be working.. it does for like 2 weeks then i end up in tears again? i feel like me trying to change him is only gonna change me.. am i right? eg.. Arrogance, bad attitude?... ETC.? and lately he keeps telling me ''dont tell me what to do!! if im gonna do something i will do it?!?'' im not a moaner but all he does is just embaress me when were out for dinner for example always moaning at the waiters because somethings not right?! bla bla and all i said to him was.. ''do u have to moan about it?! just leav it!'' and he said dont tell me what to do!!! and he went off on one.. and i started to cry.. because all he does is makes me angry and cry... ur not supposed to be like that with someone you love?... and he said he was angry with something else.. but in a relationship arnt u supposed to talk to your partner like a bestfriend and know what their feeeling?.. its all about communication and he cant do that... what to do.... ARGHH!!Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?
    Oh boy, you've got a real bad one here! First, NO, you will not be able to change his personality and second, he is a toxic person that you need to get away from. You deserve better than to be yelled at, embarrassed, belittled, and bewildered! You will never know where you stand with this guy %26amp; he likes it that way. Look for someone who is positive by nature. You don't need this for one more minute! His loss.Is it true that you can never change your partners personality? ?
    Yes, u said it, trying to change him will only change u, it will make u suffer from depression and blood pressure, u may suffer a heart attack.


    It is only a mad girl, madly in love who can tolerate this guy, who embarrasses u in public, and shouts at u, is insensitive to u and does not care about your feelings.
    I'm afraid the answer's in the question there. You can't change someone's personality and you either have to live with it or get rid of them. I think that if you don't like a person's personality then you shouldn't be around them, it's as simple as that.
    You Can Change Them, If They Want To Be Changed.


    But In A Relationship You Gotta Take The Good With The Bad.


    Also In The Scenario You Gave About The Meal, You Did Kinda Have A Go At Him, When Saying 'Do You Have To Moan About It!?'
    You cant change anybodies personality. Happy.go.lucky people stay that way all there life and visa versa. You can bury it for a while but it always comes back. If you don't like the bum then get shot of him, Your only here once.
    i don't get why you are with him, what attracted you to the guy. i mean it sounds like he's always been like this, and now you wanna change him, that won't work.
    Walk away. He's not hearing you, he won't adjust his attitude, and frankly my dear, there are plenty of other fellas out there, so don't get into a twist over this guy. Ditch him. You're worth it!
    Never change them, impossible !!!!!!!!!!
    When I started dating my guy he had a very mad (hit things) temper. I told him I can not be with someone with a temper like that. I told him to change for him not for me %26amp; he did. His temper was not good for me, him or anyone else that is why I said something but the little things I just let slide %26amp; learn to joke about them because why be with someone if you have to change them to make it work.





    If there are things that you really cant live with find someone who would be better for you and if you really love this guy then just let somethings go, Im sure there are things about you he would like to change.
    you sound vry frustrated. You are very wise though. You already can see that by trying to change him you are just changing yourself and not necesarily for the better. To answer your question, you can have an influence on your man as time goes by, when two people become one, there is generally change on both sides as your thoughts and minds come together. This isnt something that is forced, but happens as you grow together.





    The only thing you are capable of changing is YOU, maybe a change in your aproach or attitude will change your partner. maybe your just not meant to be together.





    Whatever happens. Good Luck
    one the things about life is freedom of choice. you cannot change your partner but you can be an example to them. you do the classy thing maybe something will stick. dont worry about his moaning, maybe if you ignore him he'll realise how unattractive it is and pull his socks up. until then if you want to make it work turn the other when behaves inappropiately. if you can't do this then you should not be with him. if you continue to tell him stuff he'll feel controled and start displaying worst attitudes. to make a relationship work have to learn a bit of tolerance.
    you cant change anyone in this world. no amount of fighting and screaming and crying and making a scene is going to change anybody, ever, especially a guy who is completely different from you, doesnt care if you're happy or if you guys get along, is probably about to move to the next planet to escape your immature dramatic and ridiculous hysterical behavior. and says that he won't change. you sound so annoying and bossy i think i would yell at waiters too if i were your boyfriend. (lol and i never take the guy's side either). break up with him and go take a look at yourself, you shouldnt' cry unless somebody dies or something not because of the boo hoo how sad for you news that you can not make a guy into the little robot pet that you want.
    i think you have lost or had a damage in the respect aspect of your relationship. its clearly how he talks with you. if he's angry with something or someone else and at the same time truly loves you, he wont be able to vent it on you because he loves you.





    we can't change people specially our spouses, but they can help themselves change if they honestly feel that we are sincere when we respect their efforts in trying to change, when we appreciate them in spite of struggles to change and if they are still accepted however they are.





    have a good time with each other. i hope you'll have a time out, maybe a date, an informal setting then pinch in this topic lightly. maybe he'd try to be honest if he want it to work. be careful also that this might be the start that he'd be thinking of divorce.





    hope this helps.

    Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?

    You can waltz only with Matildas.Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?
    I have never once in my life met a girl named Matilda.


    Not even an Australian one.Is it true that there is an Australian law which allows waltzing only if your partner's name is Matilda?
    True, but because there are not many Matildas anymore, compared to Britneys, Kylies and Madonnas; the waltz is almost extinct, like swagmen, troopers, and squatters.
    not sure, but they do still ask if you've ever been convicted of a crime before you enter australia... i didn't know that was still mandatory to enter australia.... :)
    what, some laws, or some matildas, require you to jump into a billabong?





    i've never had a problem as my name is matilda. it's a shame when we get those international ballroom dancing comps in australia, the competition is never really fair - only australians named matilda are allowed to dance...
    Only if your partner's name is Matilda AND only if your partner is a sheep.
    Yes! Here's the law in full:


    Once a jolly swagman camped by a billabong,


    Under the shade of a coolibah tree,


    And he sang as he watched and waited 'til his billy boiled


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    And he sang as he as he watched and waited 'til his billy boiled,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Down came a jumbuck to drink at the billabong,


    Up got the swagman and grabbed him with glee,


    And he sang as he stowed that jumbuck in his tucker bag,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    And he sang as he stowed that jumbuck in his tucker bag,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Down came the squatter, mounted on his thoroughbred,


    Up came the troopers, one, two, three,


    ';Where's that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?';


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';


    ';Who's that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?';,


    ';You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me';.





    Up got the swaggy and jumped into the billabong,


    ';You'll never catch me alive,'; said he,


    And his ghost may be heard as you passed by that billabong,


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';





    Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda


    Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me


    And his ghost may be heard as you passed by that billabong,


    ';Who'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me?';
    no


    what benefit would that be to the Australians
    lol no.
    Waltz
    Yeah, that's why I gave up waltzing %26amp; took up doing the roo-trot (apologies to my cousin, Brer Fox) instead.
    I'd believe it, we're the most powerful country in the world and look at some of the STUPID laws we have over here
    What if you have a piece of corregated iron??
    No, not true.The song was writen a man named Banjo Paterson in 1895 and became Australia's most well liked, and sang tune.
    Definitely. I love how you are so informative about Australia. We pay people very big money here to promote our Country.
    I Doubt It.

    Is it true that relationships are more successful when both partners are in the same ';league';?

    ...looks wise? I don't think this is true but seems to be a consensus elsewhere.Is it true that relationships are more successful when both partners are in the same ';league';?
    no relationships work better when based on truth love and understandingIs it true that relationships are more successful when both partners are in the same ';league';?
    Relationships are most successful when both partners are mature enough to appreciate more than looks.
    No, I've made my way up the social ladder by making sure that I always have a partner one league up from me
    i dont think so. often, a hot chick is insecure anyway. and guys have different tastes...what is hot to him may be not attractive and below his ';league'; to other people.





    i dont really believe in leagues. i am not that handsome. maybe a 6/10 tops. but i have gotten 9+ girls many times. it happens.





    in very broad terms, i guess leagues exist, and it might be wise not to cross them. i mean, i doubt a brad pitt type would be happy with a very fat girl. or that a jessica simpson type would be happy with a short, fat, balding guy. but those are immense and uncommon disparities.
    In my opinion, I think that statement is true. However, if both parties are on the same level maturity wise, then I think that they both have a good chance as well.
    It's about maturity, respect of both of them. It'd be like judging people on their looks
    What a load of crap!!
    Bollocks its about personality. people who are hung up on looks alone deserve eachother.
    hehehe, good to know that not everyone goes for looks...


    a relationship MAY start with looks, but if the outside is beautiful and the inside is ugly, then things will go sour pretty fast. successful long term relationships are based on character and personality, trust, compromise, and good old fashioned love!
    I don't think so, I couldn't stand all the constant pressure to succeed over my partner. People do it without realizing it until one of them cracks under the strain.
    I think a lot of people here have misinterpreted your question... I know what you're talking about - I've heard of this before - that people subconsciously go for people who are on the same level as them attractiveness-wise... it's not saying that they go for looks over personality. We shouldn't generalise, but I do think it often happens like that - for instance you would rarely ever see a really plain girl with a very handsome man.... and this is not necessarily because people go for looks but because people often (subconsciously again) feel more comfortable with people who are in their 'league'. Kinda unfair, but true I think.
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  • Do you think when it comes to a partner for life this should ring true?

    THE BEST PART OF ME IS YOU.





    Should that be true for both partners?Do you think when it comes to a partner for life this should ring true?
    Since you have invoked ';should';, which makes this an issue of morality; I would say, ';no';.





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    A person is what they are. Regardless of who they are with, eventually all sides of a person will manifest. Each person will be as they are with another person; they will act and react as they choose to. You cannot being out the best or worst in me simply by being with me, I will be as I am and as I choose to be...as will anyone else. If you do not want (choose) to be ';influenced'; by me, positively or negatively, then you will not be.





    While I do understand the gist of your question, the reality is, any other person will eventually bring out the ';best'; or ';worst'; of another...because the person chooses to show that side of themselves, for whatever reason(s)...no one ';makes'; you show one side of yourself or another, how you act / react is a choice you make.Do you think when it comes to a partner for life this should ring true?
    I wouldn't say that 'the best part of me is my husband', because we are both pretty great on our own. Together we make a wonderful pair who love and accept each other unconditionally.





    'The best part of me is you' is discounting your own value. You shouldn't have to devalue yourself in order to have a wonderful partner for life.





    Edit: Yes, 'You bring out the best in me' is definitely true of my relationship with my husband, and I would think would ring true when it comes to a partner for life. I guess it's all in the phrasing....
    I agree with the statement you made in the additional details, but to be happy with someone does not mean that you lose your identity. But I do believe that partners should bring out the best in one another. Of course, that will not always be the case, that is impossible, people are going to have differences no matter how much they are alike or in love.
    i think that phrase would best suit a couple who have been married 30/40 yrs. when one partner dies, it's like your half a person. and your so miserable, you feel like the worst half.


    (if that makes sense)
    what a stupid question If you really loved the person why don't you just ask him/her if you knew what love was you would already know what the answere is don't ask any of us when it should actually be your call
    again, what partner means to life is what you breathe now! if you breathe the poison then the answer is fatal!! save your gut the truth is affection!!
    No. It is not healthy to base so much of your identity on someone else.