I am sure not many get true love / soul partners. They live together for the sake of it. It could be economic reasons, age factor, for the sake of children or society.
Why we are denied of true love in this world? When we speak about true love, actually how many really get it? Do partners / husband %26amp; wife’s really love ...?
True love comes from a very deep and sacred place inside oneself. Most people are too distracted by the frivolous things society offers up to search for depth and higher meaning.
You could just as easily ask, ';Why do so many claim to follow a particular religious path but not live by it's teachings?'; Because it's much easier to claim to be ';in'; with others, to be ';normal';, even if you're faking it.
Then... you have the romantics. People with true depth aren't likely to be content with anything less than authentic relationships that mean something. Sadly, the majority of the population seems more than willing to sell its soul for an illusion of love than to work towards attaining REAL love.
Excellent question!When we speak about true love, actually how many really get it? Do partners / husband %26amp; wife’s really love ...?
Love is a many splendoured thing. A saying of the past?
Today we understand what is being loved and what is the meaning by not being loved. The depth of love between individuals is something which cannot be measured. There is still no meter or device invented to measure it!!
Each person has his way of showing his love to his beloved ones. A father to children, husband to wife and so on. Sometimes the receiver does not understand the impact of the love showered until it is too late.
Long live Love.
That's a matter of perspective.
You sound like you have only seen or experienced bad marriages - improper treatment, insults, abuse. Wow!
People are often so desperate to make a connection that they marry for the wrong reasons. Love is not a reason to marry. Love wont keep you from any of the horrible things you mentioned. It wont keep you together through the tough times.
You need love plus commitment, kindness, similiar temperments, similiar expectations, and similiar values and beliefs.
Perhaps you in particular are feeling denied true love. Are you close to 40? Because that's about how long it took me to find my prince charming. Everyone wants things to happen right now, life doesn't work that way. You have to be in a healthy place and meet someone else in a healthy state of mind.
To define love is difficult %26amp; for this reason that words cannot fully describe the flavor of love.
Sources of love is Cosmic Love %26amp; is expressed as human love in it's various forms. Mother does not know why she loves the child.
It is the manifestation in them of God's love %26amp; when it is pure %26amp; unselfish it reflects His Divine love
Sex in itself is not love. When it becomes the supreme factor in that relationship love flies out of door(Practice moderation in sex)
love gives without expecting anything in return.
some do it 4 money, some do it 2 use, others do it cuz their self esteem is low n they need some1 special 2 help gain confidence...theres so many immature n dumb reasons.
i myself am not with my boyfriend 4 any other reason besides the fact that i DO love him. complete n utterly in l-o-v-e with him(:
i believe that no relationship is real/sincere/true, etc. if they dont jus simply love em 4 them n the feelins they have 4 each other.
I don't think we are denied true love. I think true love is like when a parent loves a child or a child loves a parent. I think you can love someone and not love everything about them. But you are right how can you say you love someone and treat them badly. oh, and I think this whole romantic love at first sight crap is just that crap. I think you have to truly know someone to love them. Everything else is just lust.
Love is not instant, only for your child because they are your flesh %26amp; blood. Love for wife or parents or other person takes time, as you grow with them you get the inner feeling of attachment %26amp; that is love.
i guess they weren't love by their parent so they dont understand love and the love thing probaly copy it from somewhere else who has used it then after that (no more to copying)return to there violents nature /..thats my guess
well the story of the whole world everyone is ready to complain of not getting enough but wat abt giving without expecting
HUmm maybe some of them juz say blah blaa blah i love him i love her OMG i love this n that...uhh but actually not really lol..... even friendships are also love.....lol.
because most people are self centered and really don't care about anyone but themselves.
it is not necessary to prove the world ...only one knows they love their spouse or not.
You are not denied of true love by the world- only by yourself.
My husband and I do know what true love is.
We have been together for 3 years, 2 1/2 of those years were spent talking over the internet and over the phone (I was underage) and of being brokenhearted because we wanted to be together so badly but we couldnt because of the law. He and I have a 24 year age difference, and the world would have looked down on that a bit, lol
We have been married for a year, and are expecting our first child, and we grow more and more in love with eachother each passing day.
My husband saved my life from a very violant ex, because the police wouldnt help me, and my parents were not doing anything, so the first time we met was when he came on a greyhound- a 18 hour ride, (he doesnt have a car- Cerebral palsy), and he and I ran away together. I was still 17, and we were planning on waiting until i was 18 to be respectful, but he was tired of me getting hurt and had to come and get me. We knew we would be caught, and that was fine, he just wanted to get the message across to my family that they need to start treating me correctly and also so my ex would leave me alone and stop stalking me and threatening me, and it worked- he never bothered me again. and My family learned how to respect me and treat me correctly after they brought me home. It was horrible when the cops tore us apart though...but he told me beforehand that when they caught us, just to go quietly and not to fight...he said he wanted to be the only one who got in trouble and wanted me to be safe and not get arrested...and he promised me he would be fine. Then later that night, my mom, her bf, and my dad went to his APT before they even came to see me at the police station (sick i know) and my moms bf came in with the intent of killing my husband, and my husband just took it, he didnt even care, and so my moms bf got in trouble for beating up a crippled person.
See, my husband knew that he would get in trouble- that he would have a blemish on his perfect record (never got in trouble with the law once) and he knew he could go to jail for the charge they brought on him (running away with a minor), but thank god, he didnt get in trouble at all- but it was a selfless act. he didnt care if he went to jail for me- he loved me that much and wanted me to be safe.
After a few months, my family let me move with him and marry him, a few months before i turned 18, and we are so happy together, and my family loves him because they know how kind he is to me, and what a blessing he has been. He has been a wonderful protector and partner and friend and love, and has been so selfless through everything for me...and its amazing. My husband and I have been through so much together, and have been through more than most married couples are willing to go through for their significant other.
Most couples will only go so far...mine gave up everything for me, and I gave up everything for him. We live a very simple existence, With no car, less than $900 a month to live off of- which includes bills and food- thats it, and no car...But we are so happy together none of that matters. Sure we have had our problems in the past- what couple hasnt?? but we cherish eachother so much.....and love eachother so much we have proven that we would do anything for eachother.
We have been shunned by so many because of our age difference, and because we met over the internet. But the thing is, we dont care. We actually laugh our butts off when someone accidentally calls my husband my dad or something, HAHA. The age thing doesnt bother us because we fit perfectly in every aspect. People who have said things in the past about us, we could really care less. We have always said all we needed was each other, and thats true, because we are basically all we have. His family hates us, and my family loves us together and as a couple, but they live so far away. so we are basically all we have....our warm little home, our two lovely kitties, and this little angel that I am carrying....and its wonderful.
True love does exist, but only if you give it a chance...but remember, true love is not a fairy tale, you need to work when it comes to true love to- just like anything else. true love is worth fighting for.
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